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The Most Important Thing To Do As We Age

by Roopa July 11, 2023
written by Roopa

My blogpost on this important topic is a result of watching my mother get feeble by limiting herself over the years to very restricted activities around the house. “Everybody wants to live forever, but nobody wants to grow old!” – Jonathan Swift

Hah! Yes of course! But we do know that everything and everyone ages and grows older!

Even a new-born baby is aging! Aging is inevitable. That is reality, and a fact of life. We need to accept this… And do whatever is needed to stay youthful in mind, body and spirit! 😊

As we age, our bodies change a lot. Every organ and organ system in the body changes in a small or big way from as early as age 30 ! Our hormone levels change, our metabolic rate changes, and we can see the physical changes in our skin, face and hair. What most people do not realise or observe is that even our muscles begin to diminish in size and strength unless we do something to maintain them!

It always depends on what WE choose !

Our quality and intensity of life as we get older depends on what kind of life we choose for ourselves – top class quality OR mediocre/poor quality ?

Do we want to be limited, dependent, weak, sick, unable to move as we age?

OR

Do we want to be active, independent, healthy, flexible and energetic even as we get older?

If you choose to be in the second category, read on to know about that ONE thing we must do to be able to enjoy our lives doing what we love doing, while staying active, healthy, and independent for as long as possible.

At any stage of life, of course our wellness relates to many dimensions – physical, mental, spiritual, social, financial, emotional etc. While we must pro-actively choose what to do in each of these dimensions, in this post I focus on the very vital physical /fitness aspect of wellness. Being in great health makes a world of positive difference to the other dimensions of wellness!

The basis of all movement – Marvelous Muscles!

Our level of activities is determined by our muscular strength and we tend to lose this as we age. How beautifully they help us move!

When we turn our head to watch a sunrise,

When we pick up a laptop and sit to work,

We walk to the car to go buy groceries,

Smile a huge smile for that pic with our family 🙂

Wave at that neighbour in the park,

Try on a new shirt at a store

Climb the steps to board a flight, or even

When we just swallow our food !

Yes, we are indeed using a variety of muscles for these everyday actions ! There is no movement without muscles. This means we can do no external physical activity without using our muscles (of course, inside our bodies, many muscles including those of our stomach, heart and gut are carrying on many important activities without us being explicitly aware of them).

Simply put – when we lose our muscles, we are rendered weak and immobile. Muscle mass is THE most important component that determines our physical health. Consequently, to be physically active and fit, our aim should be to keep our musculoskeletal system really strong. And to achieve this, we must work out since muscles are built or maintained only when we use them properly and adequately.

So, the One thing that we must do to keep ourselves active, healthy and strong as we grow older is – maintain muscle mass! The best part is that since our muscles are intricately connected with our skeletal system, we are taking care of our bones and joints too when we keep our muscles in good condition.

This makes ALL the difference to how we feel when we age !

Here’s something everyone should know !

1.Maintaining muscle mass (or building it) is an intentional activity.

This means that muscle will not just build or maintain itself in size or strength !! We MUST make an effort to build it through strengthening and resistance exercises.

My mother’s stair-climbing story – a case in point about age not being an obstacle to improvement.

My 77-year old mother wouldn’t climb any stairs at all as she thought it would make her knees hurt more. While she stayed at my place for a few months to recover from a fall, I urged her to climb up to the first floor. She gave it a try. At the end of the 2nd month, she could actually climb up to the second floor (using the banister for support) much to her own astonishment!

2. No Challenge = NO Change!!

If you already have a workout routine, that’s great!! However, it isn’t enough to do a regular easy routine every day and expect to stay strong. We get better, and the benefits accrue ONLY when we challenge ourselves to continually improve. Specifically, it is only when we do more and increase the intensity of our workouts, we do better and get fit enough. For this we need to add to what we are doing in terms of a) level of workouts b) the duration and c) type. There are many exercises to choose from to achieve incremental progress in strength.

Bear the aches 🙂 ! It will hurt when our muscles are working more and differently than what we are used to ! Subsequently our bodies adapt and we get stronger !

3. Resistance and strength training – The first step to building muscle is breaking it. When the muscle repairs itself, that is when the muscle building happens ! Resistance or strength workouts help maintain muscle mass and improve bone density and strength. These are not difficult to do, they can be done at home and do not need any special equipment. We can build muscle using just our own body weight! We can use simple hand-held weights as well if we want to have some variety in our exercise routines.

Here are some strengthening exercises –

Basic exercises like plank holds and all the variations build a strong core and upper body, both are essential for our posture. Lunges, squats, and stair climbing make our hips, legs/lower body stronger. Push-ups and upper body exercises keep our arms and shoulders strong and flexible. Yogasanas, including Surya namaskars, done with correct form and with the postures held for a certain time are an amazing way to be fit and flexible.

It is equally essential to incorporate stretching into our daily routine to relax and tone our muscles.

Illustration with cartoon drawing explaining the importance of good eating habits.

4. Yes, what we eat matters a great deal – treat yourself to the best !

The body is a beautiful and responsive system. We need to treat ourselves with care, love and respect. This means enjoying food that is nourishing and nutritious, preferably sourced ethically and non-violently.

Rise to the next level – kick it up a notch !

If you have a standard workout routine that you follow, it is time to work it up a notch! Do more, increase the intensity, try a different set of exercises, for example, ones that test your balance and stability. By working different sets of muscles and training in a variety of ways, we improve our overall fitness. CONSISTENCY is the key to improvement and results.

Encourage the seniors in your homes to do more physically. Urge them and guide them to start small and work their way up to do better.

“Years may wrinkle the skin, but to give up enthusiasm wrinkles the soul.” Samuel Ullman

“We don’t stop playing because we grow old. We grow old because we stop playing.” George Bernard Shaw

In conclusion, Keep the enthusiasm going ! Keep playing ! 🙂

Whatever be your age, it is never too late to start taking care of yourself ! Taking care of yourself means you care for your loved ones !

Would love to hear about your experiences with the seniors in your families! Do share in the comments below !

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How to make the moon shine brighter.

by Roopa December 22, 2022
written by Roopa

Yes, we can make the moon shine brighter … just as we can smell the fragrance of flowers more sharply, feel the raindrops more distinctly and enjoy everyday life more intensely!

We can take delight in a simple walk in the park as if it were amazing. Yes, we can relish our food more !

Caught in the daily grind of our work and routines, it is easy to look at everything in a hazy, superficial way. It is easy to feel things in a dull, disengaged manner.

But is that what we want? Or do we want everyday to have something fabulous in it?

Do we not want to get a kick from everything we do ?

4 ways to make the moon shine brighter

Here are 4 ways to make everyday brighter, more memorable and joyful !

1.Engage fully:

When we engage fully, we see more, listen better, understand deeply, and do more.

Engaging fully means to give focused attention, open our senses completely, involve deeply, and be connected to whatever we are doing at that moment.

It could be simple acts like eating breakfast, talking on the phone with a colleague, jogging in a park, teaching a kid to do Math… Or gazing up at the Moon ! 🙂

While the word ‘detachment’ can mean different things in different contexts, for the best moments in our lives, we need to be attached and engaged with our passions and with whatever we are doing in that moment, not detached.

Engaged moments make us feel productive, fulfilled, and content.

“Do your best but be detached from the fruits/results of your actions though”, advises Lord Krishna in the Bhagavad Gita.

2. Experience intensely:

There’s the superficial or shallow way of looking at things, of experiencing something. And then there’s the deep, engaged, intense way of experiencing things.

Think of how you would play with a new puppy in the house! After a long hard trek to the top, how would you enjoy the stunning, pure white waterfall spread out in front of you? If you had the opportunity to enjoy a cool, delicious drink in a lovely ambience… how you would relish it? How would you enjoy a fresh, juicy, crisp green apple plucked directly from the tree?

When we feel something intensely, our senses become acute and we experience things more.

When we feel more, we are more alive. Indeed, we can make this way of experiencing anything a habit !

To be able to feel intensely is a sign of a great and rich inner life, of deep thoughts, and an essential passion that allows us to enjoy everyday things more brightly.

Expressing what we feel is as important as experiencing it. The expression of intense feelings in positive and creative ways makes us feel wonderful ! It is the combination of emotion and intellect in intense ways that give rise to great works of art, prose, poetry and other forms of creativity.

It is through emotional intensity that we experience joy in life, have a passion for learning, have a drive to express our talents, and have the motivation for achievement.

When everyone lives with intensity, it elevates this world greatly.

3. Allow more sensitivity:

The world is full of magic things, patiently waiting for our senses to grow sharper.

– WB Yeats

To experience the magic, it is good to be comfortable with natural human expressions and emotions. Feelings make us human, it is what makes us special. Definitely, there is no need to be passive, stoic or non-expressive.It is easy to desensitize ourselves to avoid emotions. This makes our days dull, draining and boring.

When we open our senses to perceive more and receive more, when we develop both our external and internal sensitivities to absorb more, we see things in more beautiful detail.

Sensitivity allows us to practise empathy, understanding and kindness. Our communication is clearer and our connection better because we perceive people and their feelings more clearly when we become more sensitive to others.

Emotional health is about our willingness to say yes to our inner and outer world, our ability to engage with it all, expand as required to absorb the beauty, challenges, changes and demands of this world. It is about allowing life to touch us, move us and affect us deeply, without losing our ground.

Thus, magic is about making the best of our emotional intensity.

4. Feel twinklingly, pulsatingly alive:

To be alive is to experience everything; sing, dance, love and give as totally and overflowingly as we can !

Pause when you feel drained, dull or bored ! Check your emotions and the work that you are doing. Are you engaged with what you are doing? What are your feelings? Are you doing something without having a feel for it? Without opening your senses to that task ?

To feel more alive, it is important to practise immersive living, intense experiencing and fully engaging with what we do, what we enjoy and the positive experiences we have!

We can explore exciting spaces beyond regular, societal or learnt constructs, being more sensitive rather than desensitizing.

Here’s wishing you all days that are twinklingly, pulsatingly alive !

Days with an abundant, bountiful, joyful, inner life, with an immense, unlimited zest for life !!

When we look at the moon with a sparkle in our eyes,… yes it WILL shine brighter ! 🙂

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