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The Most Important Thing To Do As We Age

by Roopa July 11, 2023
written by Roopa

My blogpost on this important topic is a result of watching my mother get feeble by limiting herself over the years to very restricted activities around the house. “Everybody wants to live forever, but nobody wants to grow old!” – Jonathan Swift

Hah! Yes of course! But we do know that everything and everyone ages and grows older!

Even a new-born baby is aging! Aging is inevitable. That is reality, and a fact of life. We need to accept this… And do whatever is needed to stay youthful in mind, body and spirit! 😊

As we age, our bodies change a lot. Every organ and organ system in the body changes in a small or big way from as early as age 30 ! Our hormone levels change, our metabolic rate changes, and we can see the physical changes in our skin, face and hair. What most people do not realise or observe is that even our muscles begin to diminish in size and strength unless we do something to maintain them!

It always depends on what WE choose !

Our quality and intensity of life as we get older depends on what kind of life we choose for ourselves – top class quality OR mediocre/poor quality ?

Do we want to be limited, dependent, weak, sick, unable to move as we age?

OR

Do we want to be active, independent, healthy, flexible and energetic even as we get older?

If you choose to be in the second category, read on to know about that ONE thing we must do to be able to enjoy our lives doing what we love doing, while staying active, healthy, and independent for as long as possible.

At any stage of life, of course our wellness relates to many dimensions – physical, mental, spiritual, social, financial, emotional etc. While we must pro-actively choose what to do in each of these dimensions, in this post I focus on the very vital physical /fitness aspect of wellness. Being in great health makes a world of positive difference to the other dimensions of wellness!

The basis of all movement – Marvelous Muscles!

Our level of activities is determined by our muscular strength and we tend to lose this as we age. How beautifully they help us move!

When we turn our head to watch a sunrise,

When we pick up a laptop and sit to work,

We walk to the car to go buy groceries,

Smile a huge smile for that pic with our family 🙂

Wave at that neighbour in the park,

Try on a new shirt at a store

Climb the steps to board a flight, or even

When we just swallow our food !

Yes, we are indeed using a variety of muscles for these everyday actions ! There is no movement without muscles. This means we can do no external physical activity without using our muscles (of course, inside our bodies, many muscles including those of our stomach, heart and gut are carrying on many important activities without us being explicitly aware of them).

Simply put – when we lose our muscles, we are rendered weak and immobile. Muscle mass is THE most important component that determines our physical health. Consequently, to be physically active and fit, our aim should be to keep our musculoskeletal system really strong. And to achieve this, we must work out since muscles are built or maintained only when we use them properly and adequately.

So, the One thing that we must do to keep ourselves active, healthy and strong as we grow older is – maintain muscle mass! The best part is that since our muscles are intricately connected with our skeletal system, we are taking care of our bones and joints too when we keep our muscles in good condition.

This makes ALL the difference to how we feel when we age !

Here’s something everyone should know !

1.Maintaining muscle mass (or building it) is an intentional activity.

This means that muscle will not just build or maintain itself in size or strength !! We MUST make an effort to build it through strengthening and resistance exercises.

My mother’s stair-climbing story – a case in point about age not being an obstacle to improvement.

My 77-year old mother wouldn’t climb any stairs at all as she thought it would make her knees hurt more. While she stayed at my place for a few months to recover from a fall, I urged her to climb up to the first floor. She gave it a try. At the end of the 2nd month, she could actually climb up to the second floor (using the banister for support) much to her own astonishment!

2. No Challenge = NO Change!!

If you already have a workout routine, that’s great!! However, it isn’t enough to do a regular easy routine every day and expect to stay strong. We get better, and the benefits accrue ONLY when we challenge ourselves to continually improve. Specifically, it is only when we do more and increase the intensity of our workouts, we do better and get fit enough. For this we need to add to what we are doing in terms of a) level of workouts b) the duration and c) type. There are many exercises to choose from to achieve incremental progress in strength.

Bear the aches 🙂 ! It will hurt when our muscles are working more and differently than what we are used to ! Subsequently our bodies adapt and we get stronger !

3. Resistance and strength training – The first step to building muscle is breaking it. When the muscle repairs itself, that is when the muscle building happens ! Resistance or strength workouts help maintain muscle mass and improve bone density and strength. These are not difficult to do, they can be done at home and do not need any special equipment. We can build muscle using just our own body weight! We can use simple hand-held weights as well if we want to have some variety in our exercise routines.

Here are some strengthening exercises –

Basic exercises like plank holds and all the variations build a strong core and upper body, both are essential for our posture. Lunges, squats, and stair climbing make our hips, legs/lower body stronger. Push-ups and upper body exercises keep our arms and shoulders strong and flexible. Yogasanas, including Surya namaskars, done with correct form and with the postures held for a certain time are an amazing way to be fit and flexible.

It is equally essential to incorporate stretching into our daily routine to relax and tone our muscles.

Illustration with cartoon drawing explaining the importance of good eating habits.

4. Yes, what we eat matters a great deal – treat yourself to the best !

The body is a beautiful and responsive system. We need to treat ourselves with care, love and respect. This means enjoying food that is nourishing and nutritious, preferably sourced ethically and non-violently.

Rise to the next level – kick it up a notch !

If you have a standard workout routine that you follow, it is time to work it up a notch! Do more, increase the intensity, try a different set of exercises, for example, ones that test your balance and stability. By working different sets of muscles and training in a variety of ways, we improve our overall fitness. CONSISTENCY is the key to improvement and results.

Encourage the seniors in your homes to do more physically. Urge them and guide them to start small and work their way up to do better.

“Years may wrinkle the skin, but to give up enthusiasm wrinkles the soul.” Samuel Ullman

“We don’t stop playing because we grow old. We grow old because we stop playing.” George Bernard Shaw

In conclusion, Keep the enthusiasm going ! Keep playing ! 🙂

Whatever be your age, it is never too late to start taking care of yourself ! Taking care of yourself means you care for your loved ones !

Would love to hear about your experiences with the seniors in your families! Do share in the comments below !

July 11, 2023 21 comments
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5 reasons why getting comfortable with hunger is great! – Introduction.

by Roopa February 24, 2023
written by Roopa

This post is about physiological hunger; understanding what your hunger and craving for food means, and how to get comfortable with tolerating hunger so that you are able to eat quantities that help you stay healthy! By learning to get comfortable with hunger, you will have the mental strength and will power to avoid overeating – the most common cause of obesity, which in turn is the lead cause of many diseases.

“What !? Seriously? Don’t you get hungry ?!!” is a question I get asked very often when I casually mention that I don’t eat dinner, and haven’t for over 20 years now. So yes, though I will attend your dinner party, I am not gonna eat anything.

Of course I get hungry. I am a normal, healthy woman and I feel pain, hunger pangs, cold and heat like any other person! I am also fit, strong, energetic, and rarely fall sick. I have been this way for as long as I can remember ! I have never once got stressed out about my weight nor do I count calories nor do I follow any particular diet except for a ‘healthy one’ (nearly) every single day!

How do I do it?

Over the years, I have gotten comfortable with the feeling of hunger. That’s the key! I am not saying it is pleasant or easy but it’s a simple way to maintain a good BMI.

If you are looking to get healthier or lose weight and are a) a normal, healthy person with b) no known diseases including diabetes and hyperacidity and c) you eat 3 meals a day, building tolerance to hunger can help you limit the quantity you eat through the day and help you get lighter.

You need not skip an entire meal like I do. In my case, I need to eat a good breakfast since I run or workout everyday in the morning. I also feel the need to have a decent lunch since I am active through the day. I can do without dinner though. Maybe what works for you would be to eat 3 meals a day but in lesser quantities. Perhaps your activity levels are such that you don’t need breakfast but lunch and dinner will keep you going strong. Whatever it is, building a tolerance to hunger, getting comfortable with that feeling without eating, will help you achieve your weight management goals.

Understand your hunger – The effect of eating Food vs Non-food – What’s your fuel?

Think about your response to hunger. What do you do when you feel those hunger pangs rising there, in your stomach or… is it all just in your head? The commonest response /reaction most people have to hunger anytime is – just go eat!

Well, that is why we get hungry right? Hunger is just the body signaling to us to eat, isn’t it ?

Sure, you must eat when hungry but can you pause, wait just a bit and think and understand what this hunger really is at this point.

Asking yourself these questions below and answering them honestly will help!

Are you conscious, alert and aware of exactly how much ‘food’ your body needs everyday? Do you eat the right quantity or are you over-eating? Are you eating food or non-food?

Are you really low energy-wise? Do you really NEED that food? What did you eat before this hunger started up again? How long ago did you eat? Are you a victim to the habit of eating?

A) Our bodies really don’t need much! To be healthy, active and energetic you need to eat the right amount of food, not more. B) You need to take care to provide the right kind of nutrition and nourishment to this supremely intelligent, amazing, beautiful body that we each live in!

Let’s say you own a petrol car. Will you put diesel or cooking oil or sawdust into your car and then expect it to run perfectly on that fuel?

Similarly you need to put in the right kind of fuel for your body and mind to function properly. Food is fuel. Grasp this clearly and firmly. And you must remember that while you can replace your car, replacing your body while you are still in it is currently not possible !

So if you are not particular about what you eat, as you should be, if you are putting all kinds of ‘non-foods’ into your body, instead of proper ‘food’ – the kind that will rejuvenate you and nourish you and preserve your health, you body will crave the right ‘food’ and make you hungry over and over again.

This is something you need to think about carefully and make the necessary changes in your diet! There’s no point tolerating hunger and then eating junk when you do eat!

What does being comfortable with hunger mean? And how does one do this?

If you decide to eat lesser than you usually do, for whatever reasons – to lose weight, to get healthier, or break some bad eating habits, the first thing you will have to do is win the battle against your tongue & stomach with your mind and will power.

You will want terribly to eat when you get hungry, to fill your mouth and stomach, but your mind might warn you about your goals, you might remember that you don’t need the food. What about that growling in your stomach? Can you change that?

We eat for a variety of reasons that need not only be physiological; food can soothe emotions, food helps in socializing, bonding with peers, food can also comfort you and change your mood. Being comfortable with hunger means understanding that though your body and mind are motivating you to eat, if you know that the intake is not necessary for you, you tolerate hunger calmly while still continuing to be active.

(Note – For sure you have to be very aware of your energy levels. If you are low on energy and need to eat, you must do so. Also if you are diabetic or have any other disease this IS NOT for you)

Here’s how to respond to hunger –

Response 1 – Sip water slowly. Warm water or cold water or water at room temperature… whatever works for you. Make water your best friend and the first ‘go to’ response. You will be amazed right from day 1 how beautifully this helps you tolerate hunger. Drink as much water as you wish to. Add some lemon juice if you like that taste. You can only feel good.

Response 2 – Tolerate the hunger. With your mind. Yes, so you are hungry. But you need NOT eat. You will do fine. You can tolerate it. If you find your stomach growling the first few days that you do not eat a meal, it’s a normal thing. As you consume lesser quantities of food, your body and mind will get used to it and you will find it easy to ignore that hunger, but you must power through those first few weeks! Tell yourself clearly that you will simply ignore that hunger because your goal is much higher.

Response 3 – Engage yourself in other activities. Get your mind to focus on things other than food. Go walking, listen to music, call some friends, do some writing or journaling. Do anything relaxing or productive that helps you take your mind off food.

Response 4 – Go nuts ! If you must absolutely eat something, go for nuts – a half cup of peanuts, some pistachios, a few almonds or anything non-carb like sticks of carrot or cucumber. (Do not overeat the nuts). You can choose to sip some juices if you like.

Response 5 – Plan your next amazing meal. What amazing, nourishing food will be your next meal? Plan it out clearly. Your mind will be able to overcome the current hunger in anticipation of a guaranteed meal that is coming up!

Response 6 – Brush your teeth. You might well be saying “what?!! seriously ?!” but take it from me, when you decide you do not need to eat anymore for the day, just brushing your teeth signals to your brain that you are done. It helps you say no to eating.

Response 7 – Breathe deeply and calm your hunger by calming your mind. When you indulge in some conscious deep breathing, you bring yourself into the ‘now’ and this calms your mind beautifully. Enjoy how easily it soothes your hunger pangs as well.

Try these tips out and let me know how you feel ! What is your experience in tolerating hunger? Have you ever gone on a fast?

The 5 great benefits of tolerating hunger, coming up in my next post !!

February 24, 2023 8 comments
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Strong, Flexible, Energetic and Youthful through Yoga Practice!!

by Roopa June 21, 2022
written by Roopa

Yoga Practice helps one to stay Strong, Fit, Flexible, Energetic and Youthful !! Regular yoga practice keeps us youthful, vibrant, balanced and healthy in mind and body !

The calm, the flow, the absolute grounding and the experience of the present with every session of Yoga practice is something everyone needs to experience and enjoy as often as possible…. a couple of times a week at least !! 🙂

Today is International Yoga Day and Bomma is excited to share her thoughts on Yoga Practice !!

Benefits of doing Yoga :

 Not only do we get a good workout,

  • it improves our full body flexibility,
  • we enhance our ability to concentrate on, and be present in our actions,
  • one learns to really enjoy the deep breathing and breath control,
  • we are amazed at the awareness in our minds and
  • best of all, we want to experience more and come back again for the fantastic feeling after a session of Yoga practice! 🙂

Join online classes, do it with your friends or with a Yoga group or just enjoy the practice by yourself ! Start simple and easy and grow up with your practice !

Shri B K S Iyengar, one of the foremost yoga gurus puts across the connection between mind and body beautifully thus “balance in the body is the foundation for balance in life”. How simple and profound.

Our moods, our wellbeing – both physical and mental depends on how well we take care of ourselves. The practice of Yoga addresses both the physical and mental aspects. We become stronger, fitter and more flexible in both mind and body 🙂

Youthfulness is all about feeling good inside and out, feeling energetic, strong, calm and balanced in mind and body and being joyful as a habit.

Regular yoga practice, combined with other workout routines that we enjoy, is a great way to feel and keep ourselves youthful !

Here are some channels to practise with , no matter whether you are a beginner or a regular practitioner :

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCHTisXO8TeozyYOxEZGC8XQ

https://www.youtube.com/c/bohobeautiful

https://www.youtube.com/c/BreatheandFlow

Happy Yoga Day 🙂

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Gift Yourself Moments Of Joy Through the Day !!

by Roopa June 16, 2022
written by Roopa

Everyday make sure to gift yourself a few moments with simple and natural things around you that make you smile !! :))

Indulging in Moments of Joy through the day will make it a beautiful and happy day.

Sometimes we think we need to experience something big and awesome to feel happy and high, but in reality, to be in the relaxed space to enjoy those occasional big things, it’s important to find moments of relaxation, smiles and joy in simple things around us on an everyday basis as well.

When we smile at the small things around us, a bird on a tree, a plant in the balcony, some flowers on a table, a puppy playing on the road, or anything in nature, it refreshes our mind and makes us relaxed.

Try it !!!

Find small Moments of Joy everyday!!

You recognise those moments by being watchful and observing what makes you smile 🙂

Anything can make you smile ! 🙂

It could be :

  • a baby in a pram on the road,
  • a hello and a nod exchanged with the guy at the coffee counter,
  • music from a road-side musician,
  • the sight of blue skies above you,
  • a picture or thoughts of beautiful mountains
  • a nicely presented healthy meal,
  • the fragrance of flowers at the florist,
  • the colour of the roses in bloom at the park,
  • children squealing with delight at the swing in the play area,
  • the texture of soft clothes on your body,
  • a brief teasing banter with your spouse,
  • a quick body stretch in the corridor
  • a few minutes of deep mindful breathing ..

Be aware of the times when you are feeling a bit stressed at work or at home and actively look out for what makes you smile and feel relaxed.

Grab these small moments throughout the day! They will add up and make you feel great!

Savour the small joys, smile, share and enjoy them with others as well! 🙂

What are your moments of Joy through the day?

Do share in the comments below!

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Want to know how to stay Relaxed and Smiling?!

by Roopa May 12, 2022
written by Roopa
Focus on the breath, be in the present !!

Deep Mindful Breathing keeps us calm, cool & smiling because an effective way to be in the present is to bring our focus to our breath.

If we sit for a few minutes a day quietly, allowing our thoughts to just pass on like clouds, while we do some deep, mindful breathing, staying aware of the breath, the inhale and the exhale, it can be a greatly relaxing, calming activity.

Our days demand a lot of thinking, decision-making, juggling between various essential activities, and things to do. We hardly give attention to the way we breathe. A few minutes of bringing our focus to our breath, enjoying the movement of air into and out of our lungs can bring instant calm and stillness in our minds.

It’s fine to do this activity as many times as we want to through the day.

Some of us may want to do this for a few minutes while some may want to stay with the breath for a bit longer. The result is a clearer, calmer mind that is in the present. Even a short while of breath awareness feels so good !!

When we stay in the present, we see things around us more clearly. We are able to think better, decide better in a calm way.

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Simple Top Youthful Living Secret Just For You!!

by Roopa April 28, 2022
written by Roopa

If we want to be young and strong, we cannot afford to eat wrong !

There is a simple secret to looking young, feeling energetic and staying healthy ! Eat Right !!

Eating food only for its taste

May not be good for our waists !

Eat fresh, local & natural,

Always with delight & restraint,

Food that is nutrition-based!

To our looks and health,

A lot of difference this is sure to make! 🙂

– Bomma.

Choose from Fruits, Vegetables, Nuts, Grains, Lentils, Millets and Natural Oils at every meal!!

When we eat right, it shows, + we feel good inside.

We need not get into calorie counting and fuss about all that we must or mustn’t eat!

Simply and Consistently choose fresh fruits, vegetables, nuts, whole grains, lentils and millets – based foods cooked in small amounts of natural oils! It’s that simple.

Enjoy what you eat, give yourself a treat once in a while!

What we eat is how our body will be. Eat to look and feel youthful and be energetic !

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Connecting with Nature in Simple Ways!!

by Roopa April 27, 2022
written by Roopa

It’s an amazing feeling to be connected with nature in any way. The nature around us is what nurtures us – we are an integral part of nature. And there are many ways to get closer to nature. A stroll in a park with trees and flowers, a hike in the mountains, just being around a plant makes a positive difference to our mood because that is how we are supposed to be – close to our natural surroundings.

Being in touch with nature, greenery, plants and trees is great for our wellbeing. Grow a plant in a container, a pot, a discarded bottle even, and enjoy the feeling of watching it grow !! A tomato plant, some mint, aloe vera, sunflower, a creeper…grow anything !!

Gardening, in any form, is great for mental and physical health, a therapy that brings joy.

The very act of touching soil, touching the Earth is loaded with great vibrations.

Sow some seeds today !!

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How to look Youthful in an instant !!!

by Roopa April 25, 2022
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“As you grow older…

To avoid saying ‘Ouch, ouch ☹’

Remember – Don’t Slouch!!”

– Bomma.

Sit tall, and stand tall (even if you aren’t tall really!)

Neck long, spine straight, shoulder relaxed, chest up, core together.

Feel energetic and confident instantly.

Slouching makes one look older, it’s not youthful. Nor healthful.

Posture is important for the proper mechanics of your body, so be aware of it.

Correct your posture frequently.  

Exercise and stretch – chest, back and core muscles.

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Being youthful and energetic is a choice !!

by Roopa April 4, 2022
written by Roopa

To be youthful, energetic, and to enjoy life in the ways we like best ! Yes, to be this way is a choice we can make! It’s what we ALL want !!

We want to be able to feel alive, enjoy the wonder that is life, look good, feel good, feel strong, feel loved, be able to travel, read, write, dance and jump when we feel like !

Longevity is desirable but maintaining vitality, having energy to do the things you want to do through the years that you live is something that can be achieved through the choices we make !

As we get older, we have to accept certain changes in our bodies and minds. But the basic principles of happiness and wellbeing remain pretty much the same!

Through my blog, I wish to explore the different aspects of wellbeing and health that will empower anyone to look good, be energetic and feel young!

Hi there !! Come with me !! 🙂

Bomma, my doll, will speak to you !!

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THE ROAD WELL TAKEN

by Roopa April 4, 2022
written by Roopa

Youthful Living, Wellness, Health, Vitality, Happiness

Hello Everyone !!!

This is a blog on Youthful Living, Energy, Vitality, Wellness, Happiness, and more.

The Road Well Taken!

Robert Frost, in his poem The Road Not Taken, speaks of the choices one has when faced with a fork in the road.

So there is a road you take, and one that you don’t take.

You can take the first road or the one that ‘appears’ less travelled.

Is that choice going to make a difference? Yes, it will.

Was that the right choice? Perhaps. Who can say ?!

It was the best choice you could make at that moment, at that time.

Should I have chosen the other road instead?

What if I had taken the road that I didn’t take?

Ha ha.

You can go on forever !!

This blog is about The Road Well Taken !

Nothing ambiguous about it.

You choose consciously to go along this road that leads to living life in the best way possible, with a smile, laughter, a sense of well-being, with energy.

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